Simplify Your Life For Success - How to Minimise The Decisions You Make Each Day

Hello Again Beautiful People.

So earlier this year I returned from a two-year trip around Australia and New Zealand. How is this relevant you're probably thinking? Well, during this time I had to do what many people struggle to imagine doing. I packed my entire life into a backpack. This led to my discovery of minimalism and my research into why so many people are adopting this new way of living. 

What is Minimalism?

Minimalism is a new age style of living supported by popular books such as "The Magic of Tidying Up" as well as incredibly successful people such as Arianna Huffington. It is the idea of decluttering your life and keeping only the things you find essential or that bring you joy. 

Here are some of the benefits I have found to living without clutter. 

1. Decluttering my wardrobe meant that I only kept my favourite clothes. I gave myself a hard and fast rule that anything I hadn't worn in the last 90 days had to go (except for formal outfits such as wedding outfits that I don't get the opportunity to wear as often). At first throwing out most of my clothes felt ridiculous, how would I decide what to wear everyday? Well, surprisingly, this is the exact point! Minimalism improves your productivity and mental state by minimising the decisions you have to make every day, such as what to wear to work. I know have 5 outfits in my wardrobe that I absolutely love and make me feel great from Monday to Friday. In case you're wondering, I kept 2 skirt suits and the blouses I wear under hem, 2 dresses with a blazer, one black and one navy pair of work shoes and one pair of smart trousers. The weirdest thing about this? I used to spend ages deciding what to wear only to select a variation of these outfits pretty much every day anyway as they were my favourites. 

2. I decluttered my room including all of my draws and cupboards, the space under my bed and my desk space. Sounds intimidating right? Well among the things I found were 12 unfilled notebooks, 3 bed sets from before my room was decorated years ago that I would never use, 3 unreturned library books from my old university library (I graduated nearly five years ago! OOPS!), An old broken fan, several presents that I had meant to re-gift but had forgotten about, a broken game boy that had to be at least ten years old, about a hundred useless pens, out of date make-up and much much more. Now I'm not the best at tidying so for years I had been shoving all of this stuff away rather than clearing it out. Once I did, there was a dramatic change in how much more grown up, open and tidy my room looked. All of my clothes now hang neatly on one rail, my desk space is tidy, I kept only what actually matches my new decor and It no longer takes me forever to find things because my draws aren't full of junk. 

3. I did the same with my kitchen and was amazed how many duplicate things me and my partner had created since moving in together. We had nearly twenty plates and bowls, for TWO people. Talk about unnecessary washing up! We also had several broken appliances including a defunct heart shaped fried egg maker, a broken blender as well as several tablecloths and old tea towels that had long been replaced. 

4. I blitzed the living room. I got rid of the lamp I had always hated, sorted all of my DVDs, BOOKS and CDs out and kept only the amount that fitted into cabinets or bookshelves as opposed to having stacks of them everywhere.

You know what they say, tidy house, tidy mind! 

5. I decluttered my email computer and email inbox. This might sound like a weird one but how many of you have to scroll through pages of old (or worse, junk!) emails or aged old files that you never use or might not even be yours. I had folders from my previous job, photos of past relationships I had no idea were still there and so many free subscriptions and promotions from when I was a student or became a member of a website newsletter for a 20% discount on something and got spammed in return (I'm talking to you ASOS and New Look!) 

6. I de-cluttered my relationships. This was by far the hardest to do! I finally let go of the one way friendships I had been holding onto since school or university where it was always me trying to keep in touch. I deleted the Facebook friends that only ever posted attention seeking or negative status's and I started saying no to the people who expected me to spend all my time doing things to please them but never reciprocated. The hard truth is that many of us are hanging on to toxic relationships or friendships. Ask yourself whether the people in your life are adding to it or taking away, and if you have someone that is family or too close to cut out of your life completely, then at least unfollow them on social media. The chances are they probably won't even notice and your head will be so much clearer without that negativity in your life. 

So how did minimalism improve my life? Well, I save time on daily decisions that are now insignificant, I focus better and am more productive because I have a clean workspace and it is such a relief to walk around my house and not be overwhelmed by piles of things i have been telling myself I would sort out. Most of all I know that the people in my life I spend my time on are the ones that return my love, appreciation and support. 


You may be thinking that I went to the extreme and that's OK but according to the experts even a small amount of decluttering can improve your mindset!

Once again, I hope you all have a happy, healthy and productive week and I will see you soon.

How Gratitude Will Improve Your Mindset For Change + 10 Exercises To Get You Started

Hello beautiful people!

Today I want to talk about a very simple concept but one that the majority of us forget to invoke in our day-to-day lives. If, like me, you are a personal development junkie then you have probably heard about the growing trend in gratitude journaling. 

So What Is Gratitude Journaling?

A gratitude journal is a free and easy way to improve your mindset and give yourself a perspective overhaul. You don't need to go out and buy a fancy journal to do so, you can do this in any notebook, smartphone or even on scrap paper. It is also something I find invaluable to take stock of before I begin any change in my habits.

The concept is simple. Take ten to fifteen minutes a day to think about the things in life you are grateful for. You may choose to note down anything from important relationships to the sun shining that day (or whatever weather makes you happy!). 

Gratitude journalling reminds us that even though we may have sources of stress or struggles going on in our daily lives (If you say you don't you are either a liar or a superhero and I need some of that power!). Furthermore, gratitude is one of the habits practised by some of the most successful people in the world including:

• Oprah Winfrey
• Tim Ferris
• Richard Branson
• and
• Paul DeJoria

It is also proven to:

• Make you physically and mentally healthier by decreasing levels of cortisol (the stress hormone)
• Improve Happiness
• Improve your relationships and social skills by increasing your empathy towards others
• Give you greater sleep quality
• Raise self-esteem
• Increase mental strength and resilience
• Reduce feelings of anger and aggression
• Give you Motivation to change

And the best part is ANYONE can do it,starting right now!

So now that we've established how gratitude can help you live a better life, here are some exercises to get you started from the serious to the downright silly, we have many aspects of life to be grateful for?

1.  What relationships do you have in your life that you are grateful for and how do these people add to your life?

2. What opportunities have you had that other's in the world would not have access to? Why are you grateful for these and how have they improved your life?

3. What parts of your job/work environment are you grateful for? Even if you're not a fan of your daily grind right now, you can still be grateful for good relationships with colleagues, development opportunities or flexibility, it might even be something as simple as having an inside office when it rains!

4. What part of your morning routine are you grateful for? Do you have a significant other to kiss goodbye as you leave for work? Maybe you have time to walk your dog or have a cup of tea in peace and cuddles with your children or pets before your day begins?

5. Think of someone who has done something to make your life easier or improve your day recently? How could you thank them?

6. What hobbies or pleasures do you have in your life? Why are you grateful to have the time to pursue them?

7. What elements of nature are you grateful for? Maybe you're like me and the warm glow of sunshine gets you out of bed in the morning? Or maybe you find the sound of rain or the site of snow relaxing?

8. What materialistic items could you not live with out? Why are you grateful to have them in your life?

9. What songs/ books/ podcasts/ movies or you-tube videos make you feel good? Think about why you are grateful to the people behind them.

10. What daily essentials are you grateful to have in your life? For example in the UK we have ample sources of food and water and free healthcare when we need it, this is not the case in many parts of the world. 

So there you have it, ten exercises to hopefully get you started on exercising those gratitude muscles. I hope you have a happy, healthy and productive week and I'll see you soon!